How Long Does it Take to Get Back with Your Ex Boyfriend or Girlfriend? | How long should I wait before Contact
“How long does it take to get my ex back…?”
How long does no contact last? How long should I wait before contacting my ex?
We get asked these questions at ZooMonkey 100 times a day. (sometimes we do not advocate the no contact rule at all..and coach against it..)
The length of time entirely depends on your situation. Unlike other ‘get your ex back’ programs we are strong believers that every breakup is unique. Yes. Common themes and principles exist in every breakup and common methodologies exist in the reconciliation process but the length of time someone needs to engage in our different phases entirely depends on the history of the relationship and the history of the breakup and the personality types of both parties.
Another question we get is how long should I wait before contacting my ex again?
This is a personal coaching issue and it all depends on the feeling of the situation. Number one, where are you emotionally in the process and number two, where is your ex emotionally in the process. You want to wait long enough where both parties have reached a level of comfort and ease.
We have coached people whereby the time period was not long at all. In fact, some of our clients experience reconciliation through our coaching within 48 hours. (it’s never been too much sooner than that in terms of time period.)
Long or short, we will ascertain and asses the situation and begin to fill the order for delivery of your ex back in your arms as fast as we can.
We know you don’t want the process to be too long and we understand this fact.
Phase I usually takes 15 to 30 days on average.
Phase II usually takes 20 days.
Phase III usually takes 15 days
Life is short, we know you are anxious but we can not and do not coach to fire your ammunition too early and sometimes the days at the beginning can seem long but the end result is so worth it.
When you call us, we will help you decide where you are in your breakup 1-888-666-1871
The length of time it takes to get your ex back also depends on how long the breakup has been and how long the relationship lasted.